Find your happiness
and learn to put it first.

trust us, we understand exactly how you feel.

We serve coming from love, working with you based upon your needs and desires, listening for what matters to you most, and identifying all that no longer serves you in your relationships, habits, and who you believe yourself to be, while developing powerful communication skills and teaching you how to create for yourself what you truly desire AND how to be the example of all it is you say you are committed to in your life.

meet the creators of TLC

bio about both X + A, how they met,

why they decided to work together,

why they do what they do

We serve coming from love, working with you based upon your needs and desires, listening for what matters to you most, and identifying all that no longer serves you in your relationships, habits, and who you believe yourself to be while developing powerful communication skills and teaching you how to create for yourself what you truly desire AND how to be the example of all it is you say you are committed to in your life.

experience yourself in a new way

  • Transformative 1:1 Coaching with Xavier

    Imagine being able to accomplish a year’s worth of goals and desires in just 3-months time? That’s a promise when you work with me 1:1. Whatever it is you’re looking to accomplish, we will work together in creating a solid foundation to build from. Choose from a single session or go all-in on the 3-month coaching container.

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  • Couples Coaching with the TLC duo

    We work with couples in various capacities to strengthen your bond, deepen your communication, and overall create an environment for you to be fully expressed, elevating your relationships beyond what you think is possible.

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  • Breathwork & Sound Healing with Adriana

    We can work together to regulate your nervous systems and free yourself from heavy emotions you may be carrying by me guiding and teaching you breath techniques to energize the body and clear the mind, as well as breath techniques to regulate your nervous system, slow down the mind, and achieve better sleep

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client testimonial

“After years of dis-ease in my physical body, with my emotional health, within my spirit, AND in our marriage, the most recent theme in my life has been, "What is medicine?". The container that Xavier and Adriana hold for myself and my husband to share, learn, and collaborate with other like-minded couples has been nothing short of pure, divine, medicine. We look forward to our twice-monthly dose that keeps us WELL and dramatically impacts the healing within our marriage- as well as other aspects of our lives. It is a deep level of support that we didn't know we needed until we jumped in. The health of our marriage ripples out far beyond our comprehension. The immediate ripples are easy to see; in our home life, with our children, how it impacts our work...but this boulder of LOVE is so powerful that it feels quite revolutionary to be honest. World-changing. Life changing. One of the biggest learnings has been, "Only love is real." What a profound truth that acts as a balm during the times when we are triggered by tsunamis of big emotions that cloud our connection. I am deeply appreciative of that. Thank you, dear ones. You are changing the world by offering this space for couples to not only heal but to create something extraordinary. Thank you to the other couples who so graciously share their hearts and souls with us. I love you all deeply.”

— Lindsay Gilman, former client

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